The Misadventures of Dabs

Follow the simpleton as he tries to find his way around the perplexed universe. Looking for home in all the wrong places. Is our daunting hero up to the task? read on to find out...

Wednesday, March 30, 2005

PACO

To Jay-Jay “the play-day,” my childhood would not have colors if it were not for you. Salamat pare!


Paco was a young boy.
A young boy he was.
He had an innocence to him.
A face that was never grim.
He frolicked in the playground,
broke his arm but didn’t make a sound.

He was a brave boy,
A brave boy he was.
Never backing down to adventure.
Always pushing the envelope further and further.
Paco swam the deeper side of the shores,
always looking for new beaches to explore.

Paco was a sweet boy,
A sweet boy he was.
The women found him adorable.
He was always the more lovable.
He took praises with a grain of salt.
His traits made him worthy to exalt.

Paco was not ordinary,
There was nothing ordinary about that boy.
Take one glance at him and you’ll see
He could be anything he wanted to be;
he could have climbed the highest mountains,
crossed the vastest fields, and swam the deepest oceans.

But he held the hand of the devil,
Then he became a rebel.
He ran through the desolation,
Seeking a life of condemnation.
His age washed away his dreams,
and now everything is not what it seemed.

Paco became a bad man,
a bad man Paco became.
His confessions of being high,
bid the innocent child a painful goodbye.
His lethargic slavery,
took away all his audacity.
His artificial emotions,
took away his sweet disposition.

Still Paco is a good friend,
a good friend Paco is.
He was the brother I never had,
a presence that always made me glad.
O, how a sweet beginning led to a tragic end.
Now I no longer recognize my treasured friend.

But on a brighter note,
hope still floats.
As the present becomes yesterday,
and the future becomes today.
Paco looks for the boy again,
then his dreams will re-awaken.
A day I long to see,
the day when his dreams become reality.

Tuesday, March 29, 2005


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Saturday, March 26, 2005

Who am I?

Who am I, a fallen basketball player, an aspiring writer, a good friend. I have worn so many masks that I no longer know who I am. I’ve been lost for the past two years. Some days I wake up a different person, someone who I no longer recognize.

I am a man lost in the world’s complications. I have seen things that have led me to conclude that Fate is non-existent. Life is made up of random circumstances, connected by smiles and cries. I take a palm of pleasure from the enjoyable details in between: a quarter-pounder with cheese, a stick of Marlboro reds, sunrise and sunset, etc.

Happiness is a myth to me. A drug served in tiny doses or moments.

Movies make us feel as if we could be happy; we could be millionaires, and over-achievers. But we won’t. I refuse to be influenced by culture. My choices are based on self-interest not reputation, image, or status.

This is who I am. A man who’s dreams died out a long time ago. I live for today. I live for the moment because tomorrow never arrives. The world is my mind’s inspiration. My mind is a battleground between depression and sanity. I take solace in the truth, no matter how harsh or kind it can be.

There is no happy ending here.

AS THE BALL BOUNCES...

WHEN YOU HEAR about the UA&P basketball team, you also hear numerous negative annotations that are anchored to it. At my first impression, I believed these negative criticisms. When I tried out, I never saw talent that satisfied my standards. I concluded that to join this team would only be a futile decision. But my love for basketball lingered and somehow I ended up in the roster anyway. At first I had doubts about it. But my two-year tenure in this team has changed my mind. I never regretted my decision to play. There is something extraordinary about this team. Something I have not seen in any other teams: a culmination of heart, camaraderie, and talent. I can assure you, our reputation does not serve us due justice.

Behind every successful man is a great mentor. Coach Benjie Sipin, assistant coaches Tyrone Limon and Rick Reyes are the foundation for the team’s success. They persistently push the players to perform better. Always reminding us that we are never too old to learn new things. The practices are based on fundamentals and basic plays that foster teamwork.

Basketball is like photography; if you don’t focus then you only get the negatives. The team’s essence is based on hard work and focus. 5:30 AM practices are not easy unless you have a goal to reach and a purpose to uphold. We have both a purpose and a goal so we don’t complain, we are too busy getting better to complain.

Captains Vic DeLosReyes and MJ Bayang lead the team on the floor. Vic DeLosReyes is the team’s best point guard. He is a tenacious defender and willingly lays his body on the line for the game. MJ Bayang on the other hand, exemplifies dedication. He is always one of the first to arrive in practices and one of the last to leave. MJ is the team’s steadfast motivator.

JR Jocson leads the team by example. He exudes the confidence and poise of a great player. Though this forward is undersized, his footwork and veteran tactics make him as good or even better than opposing forwards.

The team’s most talented players are Ralph Egonia and Rafael Fabie. Ralph Egonia’s game is a combination of speed and distance. He can shoot three pointers like lay-ups and he drives to the basket as if there were no tomorrow. On the other hand, Rafael Fabie’s offensive arsenal is the team’s most potent weapon. His uncharacteristic quickness and range allow him to take big men off the dribble. Fabie or “Waf” as we fondly call him is the team’s Most Valuable Player. His excellence on the court is a testament to his tremendous work ethic.

This year’s team sports two freshmen standouts: Mark Chua and Jim Hizon. Both are outstanding athletes. The two are no longer strangers to the game of basketball. They carry an on-court swagger that makes them seem as if they were veterans. The rest of the cast includes players who are not afraid to win: AC Espiritu, Javie Laurel, Dinno Datu, David Castillo, Paolo Sedonio, Karl Favilla, and Francis Braza.

In their last tournament (MNCAA), the team finished among the top four. Showing some improvement from the Dragons’ previous seasons. The season had its fair share of ups and downs that made it a memorable experience.

It is easy to play for any top-notch basketball team loaded with all the benefits and gimmicks that you can think of. But here we don’t have any benefits, any scholarships, or excused absences. What we have is passion for the game of basketball. Passion is the underpinning of a successful man without it he can never excel in the things he chooses to do. Passion puts our team on the same page because we all love basketball. That is our unifying cause.

Within the team there is no longer a “me”, “him”, or “I.” There is simply an “us.” My teammates are not only my friends they have become my brothers. The camaraderie has transcended our individual differences and made us better people inside and outside the court. It gave us a friendship much more valuable than any game will ever be. Our victories were just a bonus.

I will not remember wins or loses as much as the moments in between them. The smiles and cries the team encountered. Like MJ’s exaggerated injures, Paolo’s weird humor, throwing Vic in the pool, post practice talks, Piolo Pascual look-a-like, among others. These are the moments I will cherish for the rest of my life.

Because of this team, I have learned that the game teaches us things that we can apply in life. They say it is hard to win a basketball game. If so, how much harder is it to lose one? I value our lost games more than the ones we won. Because whenever we lost, the team showed its most admirable traits. It is not until we are at the edge of defeat, that we know who we truly are. The game unveiled who we are as individuals. We are not cowards who tremble upon the sight of a favored opponent. We never gave up, we stayed together and we helped each other when we needed it the most. You need teamwork and cooperation to succeed in the court and in life.

The UA&P basketball team has a heart of a champion. They proved to be more than worthy to be called Dragons. If you’re still in doubt about that, come and challenge us. I am not promising that we will beat you, but I guarantee we will earn your respect.

Only good things are in store for the UA&P basketball team’s future. I’ll end this essay with a quote. It is dedicated to the team’s performance last season.

"Basketball doesn't build character it reveals it."


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